Being a bride is supposed to be the most special day of a girl or woman’s life. I use both words because some girls and boys never seem to grow up or mature. It’s not a bad thing to keep boyish charm ( used in a good way ) or a girlish figure or giggle, but there are so many who have never been taught or left their faith in favor of a worldly one. Anything goes.
God designed marriage as a sacred trust. One man, one woman, one Lord. I was pleased to read that at least one actor left a show because he felt it was detrimental to him as person. There are others I’m sure. People were not intended to be intimate with so many people or partners. The Holy Spirit moves from people to people, the enemy has always tried to copy that, intimacy can get you more than you bargain for. Besides pregnancy, diseases, there are also spirits that transfer.
I’m sure some people wonder how they became addicted? Why all of a sudden things are falling apart? Why had depression come on you or even how did you find yourself in a violent or dangerous situation? My heart is with you in these struggles, there is good news.
There is nothing God can’t handle, He can turn things around in a word. If you are a believer and are struggling with something, you can ask forgiveness, you are under grace. Pour your heart out to God. He can restore your love life into what it was meant to be.
If you have some sort of problem that may be caused by sin or demonic activity, ask prayer from somene familiar with deliverance. Be careful also who you let pray for you. You can, all alone ask Him to give you the gift of the Holy Spirit and tongues, Jesus can deliver you, Himself.
He loves you, He wants you to love and be loved. He wants you to have a fulfilling love life. Only the God kind of love will ever truly satisfy our souls, it ‘s the way we were created. I am not being old fashioned, even though I probably am. I am not being preachy. I am not judging, I don’t have a clue what you’ve been through, and I can say I don’t care to know unless it was for someting I should pray for you. You don’t have to tell every wrong or confide every misstep or willful sin.
The only thing I care about is that you know that you are loved and have every opportunity to know Jesus as the love of your life and He knows the best person for you and he can send that person. Your soul is worth more than a fling or an addiction. You are important to God, you life matters, in all these days when peope are talking about black, white, Asian or Hispanic lives mattering, know they all matter to God.
God is a Father to the fatherless, He has a home for the homeless, He is the hope of the hopeless. If God does not condemn you, neither can I. I know He will help you with whatever problem you share with Him. He is full of grace and mercy. And grace is a precious gift, not the so called license to sin.
We may be far from the innocence of the couple who wait for each other, who spend their lives together forever, but we have a God who loves us unconditionally, who gave His Son and who is waiting for us to call on Him. Before you are intimate with someone, you need to have an intimate relationship with God.
Father, In Jesus name, I pray that you lead the precious people to repentance and your Son. Deliver them from what ever it is that keeps them from you perfect will and love. Send them the grace to be abstinent or the partner you choose. Bring marriages to restoration, relationships into Him, keep us from evil, all the devices of the enemy. Heal the broken hearted and bind thier wounds. Fill them and baptize them with your Spirit.