Go and celebrate with a feast of rich foods and sweet drinks, and share gifts of food with people who have nothing prepared. This is a sacred day before our Lord. Don’t be dejected and sad, for the joy of the LORD is your strength! Nehemiah 8:10
And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, He has identified you as his own, guaranteeing that you will be saved on the day of redemption. Ephesians 4:30
These are two verses that relate to joy. Most people quote the first one, as the joy of the Lord is your strength. And believe me it is! But they leave off the grief part. This is a New Living Translation, dejected and sad is substituted for grief, and aptly so.
This verse refers to a feat that has been declare but it is very relevant in the fact that He prepares a table in the presence of our enemies and He brought us to His banqueting table, His banner over us is love. And a banner can refer to the chuppah, the marriage tent or a standard or flag for battle. Either way, He has covered us with His blood and His love. We do not want to grieve the Holy Spirit either, with our lives.
Not in word or deed or either in doubt and unbelief. He will help us study and rightly divide and make us to walk in the faith and favor and joy of the Lord and give us strength. Like children misbehaving, we grieve Him. Let’s grow up in love.
We are sealed by the Holy Spirit. It is how we recognized each other as His children. We never want to grieve Him or lose our joy. Let’s look at grief.